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The Barefoot Romance: Going from Hatred to Love

By Anastasiya Goers

If you do not know it, I love running. I swear by running to keep me in shape and to give me mental and physical power to keep up with my twin toddlers. If you are not sure why running is so great, go ahead and check out these benefits of running. I am sure that you will be ready to lace up your sneakers by the time you are finished with the article (or maybe leave them resting peacefully in your closet while you are trying barefoot running?)

I am not the first one to write about barefoot running. Before I try something I make sure that there is enough evidence that this “something” won’t hurt me (you can tell that I am not the most adventurous person in this... More...


Labor of Love: How to Make An Unconventional Living

This is a guest post by Jane Rochelle of Teeny Tiny Pieces.

Happy Labor Day!

The coming 3-day weekend is a welcome indication that cooler temperatures and back-to-school schedules are on their way. It’s also a great time to refresh your focus on tasks, both at home and at work. As you begin to prioritize your list of things to do, I ask you to consider asking yourself this question:


“Is the work I do a labor of love?”

In addition to my job as a full-time education consultant, I’ve been working late into the night this summer on various writing projects, on preparations for an upcoming art show, and on deepening my technique as I work toward becoming a Healing Touch Practitioner.

Those precious evening hours, the window of time when I get to be creative, meditative, and intentional about doing the things I love, are the hours that whiz by seamlessly. I am learning the difference between working to make a living, and working to make a life that I love. More...



3 Timeless Strategies to Connect with Anyone

By Everett Bogue

You can’t reach everyone in the world.

Why? Because a lot of people are so incredibly different from you.

Some people really like fancy sports cars (I wish my superpower was the ability to stop all car traffic for a 1-mile radius around my current location,) other people really want to destroy the environment (I really wish we could save it.) still other people like going to garage sales and buying tons of junk they’ll never use to fill up their house (well, duh, I don’t do advocate this.)

The specifics of what I’m trying to say don’t really matter, the reality is that if you say anything at all that has any... More...


Find Stillness to Cure the Illness

By Leo Babauta

“Silence is a source of great strength.” ~Lao Tzu

It’s a busy day, and you’re inundated by non-stop emails, text messages, phone calls, instant message requests, notifications, interruptions of all kinds.

The noise of the world is a dull roar that pervades every second of your life. It’s a rush of activity, a drain on your energy, a pull on your attention, until you no longer have the energy to pay attention or take action.

It’s an illness, this noise, this rush. It can literally make us sick. We become stressed, depressed, fat, burnt out, slain by the slings and arrows of technology.

The cure is simple: it’s stillness.

Pause

Take a minute out of your busy day to do this little... More...


How To Make Shrimp Creole

By Drew Kime

I’m a Yankee. So I have no idea how traditional this version of shrimp creole may be. But it sure is tasty.

Ingredients

1 pound uncooked shrimp (thawed)
1 medium can (28 ounces) crushed tomatoes
1 large green bell pepper
½ large yellow onion
½ cup white mushrooms
4-6 cloves garlic
3-4 thin slices ham
1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
salt and black pepper to taste
chipotle powder

Directions

Keep your knives sharp. This has nothing to do with creole. When you’re cutting a pepper and instead of slicing cleanly it rolls over, letting the knife slide onto your fingertip — and by the way, you should have your fingers tucked under when chopping  …

 

Fortunately the knife was... More...


Angelina Jolie Defies Gravity

By Francisco

Themovieblog.com

Gravity, scripted by director Alfonso Cuarón, is about two characters, a team leader (Downey Jr.) and a female lead, who get stranded in space after their space station explodes, killing the remainder of their team. It’s been described as Castaway set in space. Warner Bro., was pushing hard to get Angelina Jolie for the female lead. Apparently, Jolie has decided to pass on it.

ScreenRant reports:
According to Deadline, Angelina Jolie has passed on the lead role in Alfonso Cuarón’s 3D film Gravity (co-starring Robert Downey Jr.). Despite being offered a mountain of cash and the opportunity to work with one of the greatest mainstream directors alive today, Jolie is too busy prepping her directorial debut, a Bosnian love story circa 1990-something.

Damn. Angelina... More...


3 Building Blocks to Success

By Aileen Mahoney

(Part four of the Legendary John Wooden Series)

One of the many things I love about the wisdom of Coach Wooden is how his building blocks apply to both team success as well as individual success.

As I listen to conversations around me, one thing I often hear is how difficult it is to pursue personal dreams as an adult. With all the responsibilities and complexities of life, work and family, how can we fit it all in?

If you really think about it, turning dreams into reality is challenging at any age, and yet somehow we hear and read everyday about those who have struggled, persevered and accomplished the very same goals we dream about. Amazingly some have even achieved despite physical, mental, or heart-wrenching difficulties.

Those... More...


Become Human, Take a Bus Journey

By Arvind Devalia

I have just travelled on a London red bus for 30 mins or so. Nothing unusual or strange about that at all.

Except that in less than 30 mins, I saw and experienced a kaleidoscope of humanity in all its guises, forms and challenges.

As is my norm and my favourite hobby, I indulged in a bit of people watching.

One great thing about living in a multicultural city like London is that you get to see and meet people from all parts of the world.

And what better way to see such people than on a London bus?

Today was no different and I reckon that in those 30 mins I must have seen people of at least a dozen different nationalities. All humans – in different shades, dress and genetic makeup.

The other common... More...


Sydney Seafood School

By Kay McMahon

You have to be fairly quick off the mark if you want to book a place at the renowned Sydney Seafood School (SSS) at the Sydney Fish Market. Most of the September classes are already fully booked. So get your skates on and book your plaice soon (sorry!) if you want to book for an October class.

The Sydney Fish Market (SFM) is one of the most prestigious and largest of its kind in the Southern hemisphere and the variety of fish available here is rivalled only by Japan. The Sydney Seafood School, which dates back to 1989, is reputed to be Australia’s top cooking school. The history of the school is quite fascinating, much of the innovation being inspired by the need to educate customers about what to do with all the unusual varieties – many of which their earlier customers... More...


Being Disengaged at Work Is an Opportunity

By Jeff Nickles

How engaged and satisfied are you on the job?

Many people hate their jobs or are seriously bored with what they do at work on a daily basis.  This is a serious issue that needs to be addressed.

As I mentioned in my last article a Lack of Engagement at Work Is Bad for You.  It carries many different risks that can really mess up your life.

Gallup says that two-thirds of American workers are “not engaged” or “disengaged”.  If you fall into this majority, then you should take action to correct the situation so you can live a more satisfying life.

See Being Disengaged as an Opportunity

It is easy to blame your employer, partners or even external factors such as the economy for your situation, but this important matter is... More...


Which is Best: First or Third Person Point of View?

By Suzannah Freeman

When I first renewed my love of writing fiction several years ago, I had a nasty tendency to write in first person, present tense point of view.

I didn’t do it deliberately–that was simply the way the words came out.

It was only once I discovered first person, present tense is considered risky that I had to stop and ask myself why I was using it. Or, for that matter, why I would choose any particular point of view or tense.

One blogging literary agent says:

…[P]resent tense is not a reason I categorically reject a novel submission. But it often becomes a contributing reason, because successful present tense novel writing is much, much more difficult to execute than past tense novel writing. Most writers, no matter... More...


Second Recession: Don’t Let Fear Take Over

By Vered DeLeeuw

“There’s going to be a second recession. You have to get out of the market NOW!” Said my friend. “It’s going to be a double-dip recession, and the second dip will be REALLY bad. Even treasuries won’t hold up if there’s a triple-digit inflation. You should do what I did. I gave a big chunk of my money to an Australian guy that buys real gold for you and holds it in underground shelters.”

This was a real conversation with a real life friend, and as depressing as it was, the conversation also got me thinking about how fear can lead to irrational behavior and how I should prepare myself to not get sucked into such behavior.

Don’t Let Fear Guide Your Decisions

The problem with acting... More...


It Takes a Community To Raise a Child

By Jenny Wynter

This week’s interview comes from a series of conversations I conducted a few years back from a project about Mums rocking the world with kidlets, a book I very much hope will see the light of day when the time is right. But for now, I’m stoked to be sharing these nuggets of yumminess here at Club Comic Mummy.

I just love this one – namely because it shows that grand creativity doesn’t necessarily need to be career related, but indeed, can infuse itself into the very way we choose to live. I also dig it as I myself have long held a vision (I’d say “fantasy”, except that implies that it’s not attainable, which, after meeting the wonderful Jocelyn Geraghty, shows that this... More...


How the Internet Might Replace the Classroom

By Josh Farkas

There are many, many, great resources on the web, especially in the area of education. There are thousands of sites dedicated just to teaching languages, for example.  In fact, Bill Gates said earlier this month that he expected that within five years the web would provide a better education than our institutions of higher learning.  Here in Texas, the Board of Education seems to have fully embraced this trend, and now offers a home schooling program for elementary school-aged kids that is completely online.  They even provide the computer.

My Life Scoop recently listed a few of the best sites for education, and there are more created every day.  In fact, Xconomy pubished an article yesterday about a new startup, Udemy, whose name comes from “academy for you.”  Udemy received... More...


Take Down the White Flag

By Alex Blackwell

Fall seven times, stand up eight. - Japanese Proverb

The temptation to quit is strongest the day before you realize your heart’s desire. The enemy of your soul waits patiently and then whispers the words he knows will persuade you to give up:

You don’t deserve it. You can’t possibly achieve it. So, why bother?

.You listen. Nod in agreement and then raise the white flag to signal defeat. This is when the disappointment strikes you. The sudden blow takes your breath away. You fall to your knees trying to recover. The enemy of your soul gloats for a moment and then leaves you in your frustration.

The noise of the white flag flapping in the wind is one of the loneliest sounds you will ever hear.

That was then. This is now.

It doesn’t matter... More...


The Creative Connection Event

By Cindy Lou Hopper

I am thrilled to be a correspondent for The Creative Connection Event.  This three day gathering of crazy talented women is hosted by Where Women Create.

I will be attending with Kim, Laurie and Paige so we can tweet about what we see, hear and learn during the event.

I am in awe of who will be attending.Amy Butler, Heather Bailey, The Pioneer Woman and so many more talented women. It should be an amazing time. Please follow us on twitter to hear all about it. We will also be giving away fabulous prizes via twitter.

Please follow us on twitter to hear all about it and win some prizes! We will be using #tcce10

 


How to Continue Writing Quality Content

By Evelyn Parham

Are you finding it harder and harder to pump out quality content?  You know you can write quality content and make things happen.  But you have let a bug grab hold of you and you cannot shake it loose. Today we will shake that bug loose.

You’re probably wondering what kind of bug I’m talking about.  Well, before I tell you, I must confess and I shall not lie.  I have this bug and if I don’t do something soon it will suck the life right out of me.

Okay, here it is “I have the blogging time wasters bug.”  I feel so much better, since I laid my burden down.

What is the time wasters bug?

The time wasters bug is a bug that draws you away from writing and producing quality content.

Time wasters bug:

Checking email constantly. Constantly... More...


Every Path Has It’s Puddle

By Sarah

"Every path has it's puddle" -English Proverb

My path for my weight is about “Low Stress” weight loss.

My path means there will be detours and pauses, even some back-tracking.  As long as the big picture general trend is gently downwards, I’m cool with it.

I love the quote above : “Every path has it’s puddle” — It’s an English proverb.  For me it means that no matter what you choose to do, there are things you must go through or around.  Sometimes you get wet muddy shoes.  Sometimes you’re prepared and wearing cute pink boots, and you take a second to “Splash!”.

My “puddle” right now is a few extra pounds from... More...


How’s Your Bacteria?

By Amber

750 trillion single cell bacteria sit in your gut. While it might sound like a nightmare, the little guys help your immune system ward off more-dangerous bugs, break down nutrients, and even manipulate how the body stores fat. Maintaining a healthy balance of gut flora is key to stellar digestion, hormone regulation and nutrient absorption. Say no to bloating and PMS, while welcoming radiant skin and unstoppable energy! Keep the peace in your belly with these tell tale signs of imbalance and probiotic eats.

How would you know if your system was out of whack? Check in with some of the most common symptoms:

* Symptoms of GI sensitivity (cramps, diarrhea, constipation, bloating, gas, IBS)
* Gluten or sugar sensitivity
* Yeast infections, cold sores, thrush... More...


Working with Fresh Herbs

By Shaina Olmanson

Today in cooking school we’ll be looking at herbs and how to cut them. Fresh herbs can add bursts of flavor that no dried herb can emulate. At our house we grow them all summer long, picking off what we need for each dish, making pesto and preserving them for use during the winter.

I’ve noticed, though, that when working with fresh herbs, some people get stuck on how exactly to go about using them. It’s like you’ve handed them this plant that has no real instructions. Instead of working with the fruit or roots of the plant, they’re now focused on leaves, and they’ve probably never used them before.

So, let’s break it down. Let’s go over a few techniques for chopping herbs to add to your dishes, as well as how we can save... More...


Why Bad Girls Get All the Best Lines

By Justine Musk

 

Ten months ago I wrote a post called why you need to write like a bad girl. I was groping towards a connection between ‘badness’, writing, and authenticity. Except I didn’t realize this until I read a book (for a nonfiction project I’m working on) called THE CURSE OF THE GOOD GIRL by Rachel Simmons (who also wrote REVIVING OPHELIA).

(By the way, from some of the responses I got, it became clear to me that men could relate to that post as well. The details might differ, but the struggle to connect with your creative self, your Voice, your spirit, your essential self, whatever you want to call it, is the same for both sexes. Which is why I think creativity is akin to spirituality and why, although I identify myself as an atheist,... More...


Dancing With the Stars Season 11 Couples Revealed

By Shari
The moment we have all been waiting for (drumroll please)……the cast of Dancing With the Stars Season 11 has been revealed!! Check out the pairings below (the celebrity is in bold): Michael Bolton and Chelsie Hightower Brandy and Maksim Chmerkovskiy Margaret Cho and Louis Van Amstel Rick Fox and Cheryl Burke Jennifer Grey and Derek Hough David Hasselhoff and Kym Johnson Florence Henderson [...]... More...


A Modern + Kid-Friendly Backyard

By Lolalina

This garden design by Sasha Tarnopolsky of L.A.-based DRY Design has really captured my imagination! We have a pretty typical backyard – i.e., a big swath of lawn surrounded by a thin border of random perennials. There is nothing wrong with this, per se, it just doesn’t make the most sense for our lifestyle. Now this, on the other hand, I could live with: I love the energy of this space! Lawn and concrete pavers create plenty of room for running around and define two distinct zones for outdoor dinners and hanging out. The plants are drought-friendly, which makes for easy watering. And how awesome is that pebble fountain built right into a planting bed? This is definitely going into my dream file – maybe within the next two years we... More...


Mammoth-Killing Space Blast ‘Off the Hook’?

By Xeno

The theory that the great beasts living in North America 13,000 years ago were killed off by a space impact can now be discounted, a new study claims.

Mammoths, giant bears, big cats and the like disappeared rapidly from the fossil record, and a comet or asteroid strike was seen as a possible culprit.

But tiny diamonds said to have been created in the collision have been misinterpreted, a US-UK team says.

Without these diamonds, the theory falls, the group tells PNAS journal.

“This was really the last pillar for this theory and I think it’s time now everyone moved on,” said co-author Professor Andrew Scott, from Royal Holloway, University of London, UK, told BBC News. …

“We looked for these diamonds and we couldn’t find... More...


The 10 Essential Ingredients of Successful Sales Pages

By Dave Navarro

When you see dozens of copywriting formulas promising “the perfect sales page,” how do you know which ones to trust?

After all, each formula seems to have a successful direct sales superstar behind it, and each one looks like a solid plan. What do you do in the face of these wildly different sales letter styles?

The first step is to realize that copywriting is more than any one “formula” — it’s an exercise in communication and persuasion.

Just like a recipe, different formats will give you different results. The recipe you’re looking for will depend on your audience — and you’ll have to test yours to find out what they respond to best.

But whatever sales page recipe... More...


What’s Your Number? How to Stop Being Stretched Too Thin

By Kim Kotecki

With the new school year upon us, life inevitably starts to pick up. Sports, civic groups, music lessons, church activities — everyone distributes their fall schedules and before you know it, the day-to-day is officially busy again.

(We hardly knew ye, summer! See ya again in nine months!)

This is your chance — right now — before everything is completely up and running, to have a conversation that will decrease your stress and increase your happiness this fall. Don’t miss this opportunity! Here’s what you need to do…

Call a household meeting (even if you’re the only one in your household.) Have everyone bring their calendars and schedules for the next few months.

Once... More...


Open Thread: How Long Do You Spend on Queries?

By SusanEJohnston
I'll you let you in on a little secret: I don't spend hours obsessing over queries, polishing each one to Pulitzer-worthy perfection. Most of my queries are written in under an hour, two tops if it's a really meaty topic or top-tier market.
Why?
There are tons of reasons why editors reject queries and most of them are out of my control. Half the time it feels like my email goes into a giant black hole, so it doesn't really matter how sparkling my prose or brilliant my idea.
I try not to get too attached to one query (it's too emotionally draining) and focus on having several ideas circulating at once to up my odds. And so far, I'm not doing too badly at this numbers game. I follow my instincts, give query drafts a quick read for typos or other mistakes, then send those babies... More...


 

How to Launch Your Own Mutiny & Toss That Unhealthy Self Overboard

By Katie Tallo

My ship has been floating along for over four decades now. The seas have been pretty calm, the sails are a touch weathered, but the hull is still in pretty good shape. The only problem is the captain – she’s nuts!

Lately, she’s been filling the ship with useless cargo – ice cream, candy, caramel corn and cake. Yep, boat loads of sugar!

If she doesn’t start dumping some of it soon, she’s going to get heavy and take on water. Then it’s only a matter of time before she sinks.

On top of that, she’s been navigating the same waters for way too long. She’s drifting aimlessly back and forth from one port to another and she’s getting absolutely nowhere. This crazy captain who wreaks havoc on my health and screws with my direction in... More...


Need a Project Done That Helps Someone? Tell Us!

Photo by Tanya K. ©

By J. Money

My boy Nate and the ItStartsWith.Us team is at it again. Using the forces of good to help give back even more!  If there’s something you’ve always wanted to do to help someone, or a group of someones, let us know :)  Your idea just might be picked to help launch our newest venture! (and I say “our” because I’m a proud member myself – W00T!). For more info on Open-Source Project, click here. To submit a project idea, email here: nate @ itstartswith.us.
Possibly related posts:Results of the $100 Scratch Off Lottery Project! New Charity Project Coming Soon! The $100 Scratch Off Lottery Project. ... More...


Isn’t It Time You Jumped Off The Carb Rollercoaster?

By Kat Eden

I feel like I’m kind of starting to re-hash well trodden ground here, so let me preface this one by saying I’ll back off for a bit after this! In the past few weeks I’ve told you how to tell if you’re addicted to carbs (hint: if you are, then this one is for you), asked you if your cardio habit is fueling your carb addiction, spoken about why I think it’s a myth that your body ‘needs’ bread or other carbs, told you when to break the rules on a low-carb diet, and explained low-carb nutrition once and for all (although obviously not, given how I’m still writing about it!)

I’ve also harped on about sugar a fair bit, with this brilliant You Tube clip Sweet, my confession on sugar addiction, and finally,... More...


Tea Tasting in China

By Dave Lee

As a fan of green and white tea before my trip around the world, I was excited to reach China where tea drinking is the norm.  I spent a lot of time in tea shops, tasting various teas (mostly black and green), and people watching in the parks.

Large thermuses of hot water are given to customers who order tea in the People's Park of Chengdu, China.

Snow on Green Lake Jasmine tea

All of the accutrements are on display for a typical Chinese tea tasting ritual.

The more expensive teas are sold in discs or blocks.

Adam, from England, gave me his copy of The Beach before we went our separate ways in China. The photo was taken while I was... More...


How Old is "Too Old"?

By Deja Pseu
This question came up in comments on Tuesday's post about motorcycle boots, when a few commenters wondered how old is "too old" to wear them?  Which begs the question, how old is "too old" to wear a leather jacket or a mini skirt or a Balenciaga bag or skull jewelry?  How old is "too old" to enjoy another fling with a current trend, or get a tattoo, or dress in mid-century vintage head-to-toe?  At what point to we need to hang up looks we've always worn and loved?
Even before I began blogging in earnest three and a half years ago, I'd been anxiously trying to suss out some consistent and unequivocal standard of age-appropriateness to use as a guideline for my own style.  I failed miserably, and good thing too.
While we all... More...


Does It Matter If I Know What I’m Doing?

By CharlieGilkey

In this vlog, I raise a counter-intuitive problem: there are cases in which knowing your craft well changes people’s perspectives about what you’re doing. What’s also interesting is that our evaluations change depending on which craft is under consideration.

In case you’re curious, I know people switch conclusions because of the way they’ve done them in conversations. This isn’t idle speculation.

So, here are three cases I’d like you to consider:

Does it matter if I know exactly how to craft useful, relevant, and interesting content? Does it matter if I know exactly how to create content that leverages the power... More...


Job Scammers Love the Recession

By Career Diva

“First, I would like to make something very clear. We are NOT a get-rich-quick company.”

I got this unsolicited job offer in an email recently and there’s a good chance many of you got the same one. How do I know this? Because it was addressed to my email, telleve@hotmail.com, and to terryemerick@comcast.net, terryemerick@hotmaik.com, test@hotmail.com. Clearly, some computer program is spitting out emails like this.

Why? Because they are scams and scammers usually throw out hundreds, even thousands of bogus lines until they catch something. Unfortunately, they’ve been catching a lot lately because many of you are desperate for money in this economy, and scammers know that so they’ve been working in over drive.

“The dismal employment rate... More...


Getting Started with a Healthy Lifestyle

By Chris

I have recently come across an interesting theory - In that we can easily optimise our bodies function via exercise. In recent articles we have looked at a bunch of different types of training and ways to integrate training into lifestyle as well as methods for short and effective workouts.

What I want to have a look into is how to optimise how your body runs through simple activity, this includes things like building muscle, improving flexibility, and generating heat -- Therefore providing better circulation and wellbeing throughout the body. It also includes priming our body to use the food we eat effectively to repair the body and supply nutrients rather than wasting the food and potentially storing it as fat.

Ideally it would be great to lay out a... More...


So You Want to Be a Freelancer?

A guest post by Emily for Almost Fearless

Today’s guest post is by Emily from Maiden Voyage.  She’s a working freelancer and if anyone knows how to make it work, it’s someone who can stitch together a living on their own talents and network.  Freelancing definitely isn’t for the timid, but if you want to make it work, here are some tips.

Nearly every neophyte knows they need business cards and a website to launch their career, but there are plenty of other things to be aware of before diving head-first into the world of freelancing. Read on for some of the tips and tricks I have learned throughout years of freelancing and from countless other freelancers I have encountered. Save Before You Quit Most people start their freelance careers on the side of their day job with a few gigs here... More...


WiseStamp Brings Your Email Signature to Life

By John Jantsch

WiseStamp Brings Your Email Signature to LifeThis content from: Duct Tape Marketing

On the spectrum of really big marketing tactics, the email signature isn’t terribly sexy, but this little touch can say a lot about what you do and how you connect.

If you’re like me, you send a lot of email so why not make sure your email signature is working in the background for you. This doesn’t mean you need flashing lights and honking horns, but you should supply recipients, even those that contact you often, with all the necessary contact details, including social profiles, so that you are easy to connect with.

Creating an email signature, while not that technical, can take a little work and may even be limited on services like GMail. WiseStamp is a browser... More...


Net Worth Update: August – $167,997.16

Photo by Kevin Rawlings ©

By J. Money

Wow this month flew by.

I swear it feels like yesterday that I just updated this. Yet another reason why putting a game plan into motion is key!

Time will continue to go on and on no matter what we do, so you start saving that money and cutting that debt week by week and eventually you’ll be wealthy without even realizing it :)

That is if these stock markets don’t crash to oblivion.  But we’d have much larger problems than our finances if that were to happen.  I just watched the movie 2012 and THAT would be scary!  All the global warming and nature stuff is what freaks me out – no money in the world can stop a world-wide tsunami from hitting you!  (*shiver*)

For now though, we just keep doing our best to manage our money... More...


Weekly Economic Commentary

By Doug Armey
Catalysts on the Horizon

“The stock market posted solid gains on Friday August 27, but still closed lower for the third week in a row.  Economic data was generally disappointing, especially housing.  This week brings the most important data of the month. . . .”

Weekly Market Commentary Aug. 30, 2010

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July/August Income Report

By Baker

Since launching my Unautomate Your Finances back in March, I’ve been providing monthly income/expense reports in order to help promote financial transparency.

Last month, I missed posting any report for July, so as August wraps up here’s the “business” side of things around here.  I’m not going to lie and tell you that I’m o.k. with the last two months.  They are much, much lower than I wanted to be at this point!  Part of transparency is showing both good and bad month… both the set-up and the launches.  Here are the numbers:

July’s income/expenses:

Net from UYF Sales:  $330.99

Total Guides Sold (June):  26 Income (less Paypal fees):  $420.82 Affiliate Payments:  -$89.83

Additional... More...


End of Summer Blues? Throw a Party!

By Career Diva

My eight-year-old son was really bummed out on Sunday because school was starting this week and he couldn’t accept summer was almost over. And, he’s really not big on school.

“Can’t you home school me?” he asked. “If I home school you,” I retorted, “you’ll end up a ditch digger.”

Not really understanding what that meant, he went off to play with his sister.

I get kids being sad about summer ending, but this week I’ve gotten a flurry of emails and text messages from friends and colleagues about how they’re in a funk because summer is coming to an end. Many haven’t gotten their fill of fun and sun, and more than a few didn’t have the time or resources to take a real vacation.

I don’t... More...


Trying to Make a Tough Decision?

By GretchenRubin

Every Wednesday is Tip Day.
This Wednesday: the 5 fateful questions to ask yourself if you're trying to make a tough decision.

When I’m reluctant to take a risk or face something uncomfortable, I ask myself these five questions which, in melodramatic form, I call the "Five Fateful Questions." They help me think clearly about a situation.

What am I waiting for?
What would I do if I weren’t scared?
What steps would make things easier?
What would I do if I had all the time and money in the world?
What is the worst, and the best, that could happen?

For example, when I considered switching from law to writing, I thought, “I’m moving to New York, the publishing capitol of the country. I have friends who are agents and writers who can give me advice.... More...


A Step Toward Happiness: The Power of Tiny Tasks

By Tammy Strobel

What exactly determines someone’s happiness? In “The How of Happiness,” Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky points out that 50% of happiness is determined by a genetic set point, 10% is determined by life circumstances (whether you are healthy, married, rich, poor, etc.), and 40% is the result of voluntary actions.

Why should you strive toward happiness? Scientific evidence gives us many reasons to aspire to greater happiness. Dr. Lyubomirsky argues that “becoming happier doesn’t just make you feel good;” being happier results in multiple fringe benefits. For example, happier people are more productive on the job, social, energetic, charitable, cooperative, physically healthier, and earn more money.

After reflecting on my personal experiences and... More...


Stepping Fully Into My Purpose

By Jonathan Mead

It’s been a bit quiet around here lately, and I haven’t been posting as much as I’d like. I’ve been getting more clear about the purpose behind Illuminated Mind and what that’s going to look like over the next few years.

My aim has always been to help people live more on their own terms and live extraordinary lives. But the focus hasn’t been as clear as I’d like. This blog started out primarily as a self development blog, then it began to transition into following your passion and getting paid to do what you love. Then, I started helping people break limiting structures and had a lot of fun doing coaching around that.

But throughout all of this I feel like my focus hasn’t been completely clear. That’s about to change.

The... More...


Naked in Eden with Robin Easton

By Jonathan Wells

Head to head, eye to eye, I didn’t dare breathe; my moist breath might provoke a serious strike. Inches from my face, my neck, it would be the worst place for venom to enter my body.

I could see each individual scale on his head. His rapidly throbbing throat stretched so tautly it appeared distorted. Two glass-like black eyes bulged with fear and stared straight into mine. His tongue flicked between black scaly lips to taste the air. Can he taste my fear?

Do I have your attention?

Great, because what you have just read is from the introduction to Robin Easton’s new book Naked in Eden. This book is absolutely mesmerizing from cover to cover and I know you are going to love it.

Naked in Eden is available in all major bookstores as of today. So please, do... More...


How to Outsource Your Blog… Or Part of It

Photo by eGuidry ©

A guest post by Georgina Laidlaw for Problogger

You don’t need to be a big-time blogger to need to outsource some aspect of your blog. A beginning blogger with a serious business plan might want to contract a designer to create a skin for their blog. A entrepreneurial blogger might want to outsource some writing, or have an agency provide social media strategy for the blog.

There are plenty of reasons why you might outsource some aspect of your blogging. But once you’ve identified the need, how should you proceed?

Don’t make your first step trying to find good candidates! Before you go hunting for help, you need to do your homework. Here’s the process I’d recommend.

1. Define what you want.

“I need help with my blog content” is not a clear directive. If you’re going... More...


Room Service

By Decor Demon

Designer Scott Laslie redefines “terms of service” with the launch of Found Market

Produced, written and directed by Brian Patrick Flynn with styling by Scott Laslie and photography by Sarah Dorio

Actress Geena Davis made a U-turn from the Hollywood Hills straight to becoming an Olympic archery hopeful. The Terminator tossed his Sarah Connor agenda out the window, then emerged as Governor of California. Kathy Ireland traded Sports Illustrated swimsuit editions for a billion dollar empire’s worth of lighting, carpet and bedding catalogs. As this star-studded trifecta demonstrates, when it comes to business practices, a change can do you good. Atlanta-based interior designer, Scott Laslie, is no exception... More...


New Evidence That Fat Cells Are Not Just Dormant Storage Depots for Calories

By Xeno

Scientists are reporting new evidence that the fat tissue in those spare tires and lower belly pooches — far from being a dormant storage depot for surplus calories — is an active organ that sends chemical signals to other parts of the body, perhaps increasing the risk of heart attacks, cancer, and other diseases. They are reporting discovery of 20 new hormones and other substances not previously known to be secreted into the blood by human fat cells and verification that fat secretes dozens of hormones and other chemical messengers. Their study appears in ACS’ monthly Journal of Proteome Research.

Anja Rosenow and colleagues note that excess body fat can contribute to heart disease, diabetes, cancer and other diseases. Many people once thought that fat cells were inert storage... More...


Creating a Boutique Business

Photo by Shimelle Laine ©

By John Jantsch

Marketing podcast with Sarah Petty (Click to play or right click and “Save As” to download – Subscribe now via iTunes

The term boutique is often associated with fashion or beauty related businesses, but it’s a concept that can apply to any business. Case in point is this week’s guest on the Duct Tape Marketing Podcast, Sarah Petty, who by her own designation, owns and operates a “boutique” photography business called Sarah Petty Photography.

Her belief in the boutique way led her to launch a separate business, The Joy of Marketing, to teach other small business owners how to create a boutique brand.

In some ways it’s easy think about a boutique... More...


It’s National Coupon Month!

Photo by Scott Chang ©

By J. Money

In case you’re un-cool and unaware, National Coupon Month starts today!!! There’s even a whole website dedicated to it: http://www.nationalcouponmonth.com/

3 interesting facts and then I’ll let you go celebrate:

97% of consumers want to know the cost of an item before buying. 91% of shoppers would walk away from the “perfect sweater” if it wasn’t on sale. Coca-Cola invented the FIRST coupon!! It was hand written, dating back to 1887. (More info here…Coke lore also says they invented the modern day Santa Claus “look” too!)

Okay actually I lied about letting you go so quickly. Before I could post this up Mrs. BudgetsAreSexy chimed in and started telling me all about her run-in with some crazy coupon lady at... More...


 
      

The Less Money Matters to You, the More Careful You Need to Be With It

By GretchenRubin

Happiness interview: Zac Bissonnette.

I met personal finance expert Zac Bissonnette when we were on a panel together, and I was impressed by his command of the research and statistics related to working, debt, higher education costs, and money -- particularly because he was still in college! He's now entering his senior year at the University of Massachusetts.

His new book, Debt-Free U: How I Paid for an Outstanding College Education Without Loans, Scholarships, or Mooching Off My Parents, just came out.

The relationship between money and happiness is one of the most complex, and most emotionally charged, topics within the large subject of happiness, so I was very interested to hear what Zac had to say.

Gretchen: Is there a happiness mantra or motto that... More...


How To Stop Feeding Fears That Paralyze Your Business

Photo by Sean Naber ©

By Dave Navarro

When you decide to get serious about growing your business (focusing on a higher price point, doubling sales or “adding a zero” to the end of your income, for example), the first thing you notice is that you slam up hard against the forces of insecurity, self-doubt and limiting beliefs.

Sometimes these forces cause you to run the other way and abandon your plans, but more often than not they just cause you to stand still, doing nothing and generally feeling terrible about yourself.

I can relate.  I’ve had to push past a whole lot of “stuff” over the last 18 months to get where I am, and I’m slamming up against a lot more resistance as I make plans to “add a zero” to my sales over then next 12 months.

Part of me says “Face... More...


How to Get Hired on the Problogger Job Board

A guest post by Ross Hudgens for Pro Blogger

Making money as a freelance content writer isn’t easy. If you aren’t running your own blog or website, turning content into cash can be a difficult thing. But there’s opportunity out there – you just have to try a little harder than normal to find it.

One of the best places to look is the Problogger job board. Here, potential employers are looking for people like you – writers serious about their craft, with a strong content-creation skillset that often develops from reading a website like this.

Because of these potential employer’s high standards for Problogger readers, this won’t be the kind of cheap, outsourced content creation you’ll have to scrap up pennies and quarters from – it’ll be real, well-paid writing gigs with... More...


Cover Crops – A Short Guide

By Alison Kerr

Don’t leave bare soil in your garden when you could plant a cover crop instead. Here’s why and how.

1. A cover crop is a short-term planting which is used to protect and/or improve your soil rather than for food.

2. Plant your cover crop in the fall rather than leaving bare soil in your vegetable beds.

Alternatively you can mulch with compost.

3. Seeds you can plant for cover cropping include: hairy vetch, common vetch, winter rye, buckwheat, oats, clovers, alfalfa, soybeans and favas.

4. Reasons you want to plant cover include: protecting your soil from erosion; breaking up your soil; adding nitrogen to your soil; and making phosphates available for... More...


Peanut Butter Chocolate Brownies

By Jules Clancy

Following on from last weeks facts about wheat flour, I wanted to explore the world of flours that are based on anything but wheat. And what a world it is.

I also wanted to experiment with baking with different flours and have come up with a wonderfully simple 5 ingredient peanut butter brownie. A brownie that totally lives up to its name and delivers on the key brownie strengths of moist, chocolately goodness. Paired with the fact that it’s gluten and dairy free, we’re talking win-win.

facts about non-wheat flours

rice flour
With a protein content of 7.5%, rice flour is probably the closest nutritionally to wheat flour. So it shouldn’t come as a surprise that the only ‘wheat free’ product in my former employers range... More...


Behind The Scenes Of A Stress-Free Product Launch In 5 Powerful Lessons

By Karol Gadja

If you’re interested in what it takes to launch a product successfully or just want to get behind the scenes of my own product launches then this is for you.

Launching a product is fun, it’s exhilarating, but it can be stressful. Unless you do it my way. ;)

Over the past 10 years I’ve done a lot of product launches. This year I’ve done 3. How To Live Anywhere (twice) and, most recently, my Manifesto: The American Dream Is Dead (Long Live The American Dream!).

You might think, “Wait, your Manifesto is a free download, how is that even a product launch?”

The truth is I spent more time orchestrating or thinking about how to orchestrate the launch of the Manifesto than I did on How To Live Anywhere. From a revenue standpoint... More...


The Light at the End of the Funnel

By Abubakar Jamil

Have you ever felt like being a football?

Well, as weird as it might seem, I’m feeling like one these days.

I feel as if I am a football and 22 players (11 from each side), are all running after me, trying to take hold of me, kicking me in all directions in their unrelenting effort to throw me into the goal area of the opposite team.

That is how life becomes sometimes, and with all your planning and all your efforts to live a controlled and planned life, you simply are unable to do just that.

I used the word “events”—like your father being extremely sick all of a sudden, your child having trouble with his health, your wife expecting another baby soon and needing your attention, your business going down the drain due to no fault of your own, and stuff like that—stuff... More...


Amazing Things

By Redneck Mommy

Every once in a while I am sitting alone in the quiet of my house and I flashback to when I was nineteen and stupid and let myself be convinced to eat the worm out of a really bad bottle of tequila for my friends’ amusement at a house party. I’d like to say I had the good sense to only pretend to swallow the fermented insect, but the memory of it’s rubbery texture haunts my tongue to this day.

What makes this memory even more spectacularly hideous is I’m fairly convinced the worm was found out back in my friend’s garden and placed in the tequila bottle earlier that night by the hyena’s I called friends. They were just waiting for someone dumb enough to choke it back.

This little memory only proves what my big brother Stretch has always known.... More...


“Are You a Good Roommate?” Quiz from 1947 Men’s Magazine

By Brett & Kate McKay

I thought this quiz would be fun as guys are heading back to school and moving in with old and new roommates. Are you the kind of roommate that’s “too good to be true” or “should you be a hermit?” Find out with this quiz from the 1946 issue of Varsity Magazine before your roommates start leaving passive aggressive notes for you on the fridge. And quit playing that phonograph all the dang time!Related posts:Look What Happens When You Dress As Smart As You Are: Vintage Images From True Magazine Heading Out on Your Own Manvotional: Robert Service’s “The Quitter” The Art of Manliness Weekly Roundup: Man Cookbook Edition The Art of Manliness Weekly Roundup: Indiana Jones IV Trailer Edition ... More...


Why You Are So Insignificant You Might As Well be Dead!

By Arvind Devalia

Have you ever wondered just how significant your life is in the great scheme of things?

And how would the world be any different if you were not in it?

Our entire life is based on our sense of who we are and the identity vested in us by society and more importantly by us.

Wherever we are or whatever we do, we tend to go around seeking significance.

We want to be famous, well known, good looking, raved about, have a massive following in social media and so on. You get my point.

Yet in the big scheme of things, you and I just don’t matter. In years to come, we will just be dust or just ashes, as it will be in my case.

Gone. No more. History.

In fact, for most of us we will not even be history, in the... More...


Reader Mailbag: Dream House

Photo by Alan Cleaver ©

By Trent Hamm

What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. 401(k) profit sharing
2. Online job application tips
3. Illness and challenges
4. College freshman advice
5. Mortgage decisions
6. Annuities for retirement?
7. Refinancing questions
8. Universal life policies
9. Using self-help advice
10. Getting started with credit

Two readers this past week wrote to me asking if I would detail what I would like to have in our dream house. I’d like a five bedroom house (one for the parents, one for each child, one for guests) – we currently have four. I would like a larger kitchen than we have... More...


Optimize Your Dishwasher for Better Cleaning

By Ethan

You may have a slick, new dishwasher with all the features but it won’t matter unless you know how to make it work for you. There are a couple things you can do to improve your dishwasher efficiency and best of all, they only take a few moments to accomplish.

Dishwasher Filter

Dishwashers have a filter to keep objects and large food particles from entering the pump. Many new dishwashers have self-cleaning filters but even some of the latest and greatest still have manual clean filters. Take a moment to check your filter. Most gunk is easily removed by rinsing the filter in water. For calcium deposits, you may need a soft scrub-brush.

Water Temperature

Hot water is great for activating and dissolving dishwasher detergent. It’s also good for removing grease and leaving... More...


A Simple Guide to Making New Friends

By Barrie Davenport

“Blessed are those who have the gift of making friends, for it is one of God’s best gifts. It involves many things, but above all, the power of going out of one’s self, and appreciating whatever is noble and loving in another.” ~Thomas Hughes

Our old friends are like comfortable blue jeans. They are worn in, reliable, non-binding, cozy, patched in places, but still a perfect fit. We’ve had them so long, they are like second skin.

Old friendships are worth tending, nurturing and growing because these are the people who love us and see the best in us in spite of our flaws. Over the course of a lifetime, you may have a handful of really deep and intimate friendships. Sometimes these few friendships are enough. They are so comfortable that the... More...


Vietnamese Summer Rolls: Keeping the Taste of Summer Alive

By Audrey Scott

As we look out the window of our sublet in Berlin today, leaves are changing colors, temperatures are dropping, and intermittent rain storms are battling with a sun that struggles to peek through the clouds. No doubt about it: summer is fading away in the northern hemisphere.

So we offer a suggestion on how to hold on to the taste and freshness of summer: Vietnamese summer rolls. Good thing is, they’re easier to make than you think.

Have you ever tried summer rolls (think unfried spring rolls) at a Vietnamese restaurant and loved them, but figured they would just be too difficult to make at home?

Well, they aren’t. Heck, we even made them in the Czech countryside.

We’ve taught several of our friends how to make them and figured we’d... More...


Cameron Vs. Piranha 3D – Round 2

By Francisco

IGN reports:
“As a producer in the entertainment industry, Jim Cameron’s comments on VanityFair.com are very disappointing to me and the team that made Piranha 3D. Mr. Cameron, who singles himself out to be a visionary of movie-making, seems to have a small vision regarding any motion pictures that are not his own. It is amazing that in the movie-making process – which is certainly a team sport – that Cameron consistently celebrates himself out as though he is a team of one. His comments are ridiculous, self-serving and insulting to those of us who are not caught up in serving his ego and his rhetoric.

Jim, are you kidding or what? First of all, let’s start by you accepting the fact that you were the original director of Piranha 2 and... More...


What Batman Can Teach You About Proofreading

A guest post by Stefanie Flaxman for Write to Done

Everyone wants to be Batman.

He’s cool and edgy, but has benevolent intentions—and the man gets results.

Luckily for you, it’s easy to adopt Batman’s intriguing qualities to perfect your writing and make others believe that you rock as hard as the Caped Crusader.

Whether you’re writing for yourself (a blog, a novel, a business document, etc.) or a client, mistakes aren’t going to cut it. Your text has to be poignant, useful, and error-free.

Here are three aspects of the Batman persona that you can apply to your proofreading habits.

Costume – The importance of writing drafts

When speaking in front of an audience, it is said that the crowd forms 70% of their opinions on how you look, 20% on how you sound,... More...


Yard Sale Ethics: Is the Sticker Price the End of the Story?

Photo by Serge Melki ©

By Trent Hamm

In my recent post about cultivating your own knowledge for fun and profit, I mentioned that you should hit yard sales, consignment shops, estate sales, and so forth as a way to put your knowledge to work for you and take advantage of underpriced items. A few commenters thought that this was unethical, so I thought I’d look at that particular point a bit more deeply.

I’ll start off by giving you a specific example of a situation where I did this in the past. As a teenager, I collected Magic: the Gathering cards (I still play with my wife using a handful of remaining cards). I had a very good idea of what some of the valuable ones were, including a few that sold for hundreds of dollars and a good number that could net $20 or more apiece.

In 2002 or 2003 (I’m... More...


GMail: “Priority Inbox” To Help You Focus On Important Emails

Photo by Declan Jewell ©

By Satish

Often time we get a lot of email in the last minute before going to a meeting or exam! But we are unsure if its just another autoresponder mail or a genuinely urgent as well as important.
Check above video – its a very good animated video explaining Priority Inbox neatly.

To solve this problem, Google has introduced a new feature called Priority Inbox. This is a separate section in your email and will automatically separate your important mails, based on which email you read and reply to.

And ofcourse it has some filters to manually mark someone’s email as important or as unimportant.
And Like most things, Priority Inbox isn’t perfect, so it needs your help to get more experience in knowing what is important... More...


When You Can Negotiate an Apartment Lease and When to Walk Away

By Thursday Bram

 

An apartment lease is a contract just like any other: there is no one set contract that you have to always adhere to if you want to rent an apartment. As long as the landlord is willing, you can negotiate the terms and make sure that you get the best deal possible.

It’s significantly easier to negotiate if you know at least a little about what is happening with local rentals: if you’re living in an area where there just aren’t a lot of apartments available right now, you can negotiate yourself right out of an apartment if you’re not careful. But if you know a landlord is having difficulty keeping all of his apartments full, you’ll be aware of opportunities to get the most out of the deal.

Leases Are... More...


Making Your Personality Shine Through Your Blog

A guest post by Farnoosh for Virgin Blogger Notes

Call me crazy but I think Personality is seriously under-represented around here. Personality is the light, unpopular and untouched side dish when served next to the other big players at the Self-Improvement Feast such as Will Power, Motivation, Communication Skills, Pursuit of Happiness, Discovering your Passion, Developing Zen Habits, and Time Management. Personality seems to be no more than a label – shy, outgoing, cheerful, ambitious, risk-taker or compassionate – a dozen or so generic descriptors of how one unique fabulous human being differs from another. You see, Personality has not been getting nearly enough of the spotlight in the world of blog headlines. Today we will put it up on the stage, analyze it from... More...


Ryan Homes Blueprint & Floor Plan

By Fred

Do you know what the coolest thing is about blogging? It’s the interesting connections you make with people that live down the street or across the country. For example, Kim met one of the home improvement blogging giants–Tim Carter from Ask the Builder– earlier this month at a Delta Faucet PR Event. And earlier this year she had the opportunity to meet the entire Tigressa Carpet Design Team down in Atlanta Georgia at their kick-off event.

Sometimes, though, the connections are more personal. We hear from do-it-yourselfers all over the country (and even internationally) who are tackling projects just like ours. They’re usually working in their own homes and facing similar challenges as we did on a project.

For instance, at least twice a month we get... More...


Do You Teach What You Most Need to Learn?

By Angela Artemis

“My husband talks to me about his writing all the time, especially when I’m trying to watch TV – it drives me crazy! You know he reads and takes notes? Do you do that to?” I can’t help but laugh as my beautician uses me as her guinea pig to try to make sense of her “writer” husband. She keeps talking without taking a breath, or allowing me to answer her question.

“What do you write about?” she asks combing my wet hair onto my forehead to trim my bangs.

“About learning to develop your intuition and to use it to-”

“To get the lottery numbers?” I see her light up over this as I watch her refection in the mirror.

“Well, not exactly, ” I say.... More...


Power of 3 – Household Chores

By Cupcake Lady

The Power of 3! Are you a numbers person? How about a list making person? I am actually both.

It’s quite interesting how the number 3 is very important. During Church last weekend, our Youth Pastor spoke about numbers in the Bible.  I won’t go into a long talk about it (maybe another post), but I do find it intriguing.

The number 3 is the first of four perfect numbers, meaning Divine. Number 3 denotes Divine Perfection. Many times during Scripture in the Bible, different things or people are mentioned 3 times. You can read more about the number 3 and other numbers in the Bible, here.

I have been a Mom for 18 1/2 years now, and I can’t even begin to tell you the number of times that I have tried a workable chore list for my family. I have tried... More...


Fried Potatoes: A Frugal Dinner

By Cupcake Lady

A little while back I told you about my new gig, The Family Dish. If you are looking for great recipes from great brands, they have what you need!

I recently shared this recipe for Fried Potatoes over on The Family Dish. We usually have breakfast-for-dinner, at least a couple times per month. It’s not only an easy meal to get on the table quickly, but also a very frugal meal. Even though I would be happy with just the Fried Potatoes for dinner, the rest of my gang probably wouldn’t. Sometimes I add some bacon and fruit, and call it a meal, but more often I also add eggs to the potatoes.

 

When we have baked potatoes, I usually make extras to use for breakfast or even a dinner meal. During the Summer months, I use my Crockpot to cook the potatoes, it not only... More...


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